Maturity into queenship
Scripture: Esther, chapters 1-10
Reflection: In the book of Esther, we get a bird’s-eye view of a young girl maturing into queenship. It is widely believed that Hadasseh, also known as Esther, descended from Saul, the first king of Israel. And even though an orphan, Esther was likely raised with a certain stature (at least in her inner world). Both she and Mordecai were Jews living in a foreign land. Their heritage was very important to them, so being of the tribe of Benjamin, and particularly of the house of Saul, they would have carried themselves with a dignity not common for a conquered people. Yet, this dignity was still far from what was needed to act as a queen.
When Esther gets invited (this is a generous word) into the king’s harem, she is but a girl, likely in her teens. Yet wisdom and favor are what set her apart. She listens to the Godly counsel of her cousin and sits under the favor given to her by Hegai, the custodian of the women in King Ahasuerus’ house. The text reveals that beyond her beauty, Esther is patient, humble, and hopeful. Yet, she is also fearful to some degree. Because later, after she has been installed as queen and has spent some years in her position, Esther faces a dilemma. Should she use her favor with the king to save her people, or should she remain silent and hope that the ordered annihilation passes her by? Esther’s initial response speaks of her youth and lack of maturity in her role. She thinks of herself and what displeasing the king could mean for her own life. But a strong, yet loving, rebuke from Mordecai pushes Esther into action! No longer is wearing the crown enough… now she will act with the authority and favor that her position holds.
The result? We see a woman mature into her queenship and a people saved by the hand of God. Note that Esther’s request for her life and for the life of her people was free from blame, animosity, or revenge. She was wise enough to know that the outcome belonged to the Lord, and she needed only to bring the problem before the king. It was the king’s order that sent Haman to the gallows, not Esther’s request. She remained stain-free from the blood of her enemy.
Reflective Questions:
Reread the book of Esther. Highlight passages that involve Hadasseh or Queen Esther. Can you see how God is maturing her over time?
Are you in a process of maturing in any area of your life? Perhaps you are a new wife or new mom. How might God be working in and through you for the betterment of your family? Are you humbly receiving His direction even when you might feel afraid?
As you read the story of Esther, where do you notice the slow and steady work of God growing her into a woman of courage?
Are there places in your own life where the Lord is inviting you to grow in maturity or responsibility? How is He speaking to you?
Esther received counsel with humility. Who is God using right now to guide or refine you? How can you receive that with grace?
What fears rise in you when God asks you to step forward? Bring them to Him in honesty.
Is there any unfinished obedience in your family line or personal history that God may be asking you to address with His strength?
Ask the Lord to show you where He has placed favor on your life and how that favor can quietly point others to Him.
Call to Action:
Find a quiet place this week and read the book of Esther from beginning to end. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you how God matures a willing heart over time.
Write down one area where He is calling you to step forward in faith.
Pray over that area every day and ask the Lord to shape you according to His purpose.
